Between Requests For Information From My Spouse’s Lawyer And My Own Lawyer, I Am Totally Overwhelmed. How Do I Manage Gathering All Of This Detailed Information By The Deadlines Imposed?
First, simply get started. Often the thought about a task is worse than than actually doing the task itself.
Second, break it down into smaller tasks. Perhaps one evening you gather your tax returns and on the weekend you work on calculating your monthly living expenses.
Third, ask for help. Ask that friend of yours who just loves numbers to come over for an evening with her calculator to help you get organized.
Finally, communicate with your lawyer. Your attorney or paralegal may be able to make your job easier by giving you suggestions or help. It may be that essential information can be provided now and the details submitted later.