I Know I Need Help To Cope With The Stress Of The Divorce, But I Can’t Afford Counseling. What Can I Do?
You are wise to recognize that divorce is a time for letting in support. You can explore a number of options, including: Meeting with a member of the clergy or lay chaplain Joining a divorce support group Turning to friends and family members Going to a therapist or divorce coach. If budget is a
I Am So Depressed About My Divorce That I’m Having Difficulty Getting Out Of Bed In The Morning To Care For My Children. What Should I Do?
Although feelings of sadness are common during a divorce, more serious depression means it's time to seek professional support. Feelings of depression or helplessness are common during a divorce. You may want to seek professional help. You also want to make sure that you identify any physical health concerns. Your health
Between Requests For Information From My Spouse’s Lawyer And My Own Lawyer, I Am Totally Overwhelmed. How Do I Manage Gathering All Of This Detailed Information By The Deadlines Imposed?
First, simply get started. Often the thought about a task is worse than than actually doing the task itself. Second, break it down into smaller tasks. Perhaps one evening you gather your tax returns and on the weekend you work on calculating your monthly living expenses. Third, ask for help. Ask that
I Am So Frustrated By My Spouse’s “Disneyland Parent” Behavior. Is There Anything I Can Do To Stop This?
Feelings of guilt, competition, or remorse sometimes lead a parent to be tempted to spend parenting time in trips to the toy store and special activities. These feelings can result in an absence of discipline in an effort to become the favored parent or to make the time "special." Shift your
My Youngest Child Seems Very Depressed About The Divorce, The Middle One Is Angry, And My Teenager Is Skipping School. How Can I Cope?
A child's reaction to divorce can vary depending upon his or her age and other factors. Some may cry and beg for a reconciliation, and others may behave inappropriately. You can reduce conflict with your spouse, continue to be a consistent and nurturing parent, and make sure you and your
I’m Unsure About How To Tell Our Children About The Divorce, And I’m Worried I’ll Say The Wrong Thing. What’s The Best Way?
There is no best way to tell your children. The age and development of your children will determine how you tell your children. Changes in your children's everyday lives, such as a change of residence or one parent leaving the home, are far more important to them than the reasons
There Is Some Information About My Marriage That I Think My Attorney Needs, But I’m Too Embarrassed To Discuss It. Must I Tell The Attorney?
If you fail to disclose information to your attorney, he or she will be unable to adequately advise you or prepare your case. Although it is deeply personal to you, it is unlikely that anything you tell your lawyer will be a shock. Attorneys who practice divorce law are accustomed
Divorce Proceedings In Louisiana
The issue of ending a marriage is not pleasant for any Louisiana couple, especially when division of assets and property is concerned. However, the most contentious aspect of the process can lie in child custody and support issues, which can turn an otherwise simple divorce into a huge ordeal for everyone involved. Child
My Spouse Left Home Weeks Ago. I Don’t Want A Divorce Because I Feel Our Marriage Can Be Saved. Should I Still See An Attorney?
In this situation, it's a good idea to see an attorney. Whether you want a divorce or not, there may be important actions for you to take now to protect your assets, credit, home, children, and future right to support. Your attorney can help you make this decision. If your spouse
Community Property Debt Can Come Back To You If Your Ex Dies
I spent Saturday and Sunday at the Welliver Bridal Show at Lakeside Shopping Center. I had brochures available regarding wills and community property. Also, I had copies of my book "Divorce in Louisiana" available for purchase. The reaction of the brides was priceless. I was told, "we havent even said